Kanya Viday / Bidaai(10:05 PM)
it is
the Hindu customs in which after marriage, the bride walks out with the Groom
from her parent's home into a new world to lay the foundation for an entire new
life with new family and a different environment. The tears of joy and sorrow
can be witnessed not only on the daughter's face, but also on the Mother's.
"Years
of bonding and a separation within minutes."
It's
hard to describe that feeling her daughter being sent off which runs through a
mother's mind and the emotions which fill her heart. Unimaginable
it is to see a mother cry and smile at same time by hiding her tears.
When
you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts.
A
mother always has thought twice, once for herself and once for her child. A
daughter is a mother's gender partner, her closest ally in the family
confederacy, an extension of herself.
In
Gujarati they say "દીકરી તો પારકી થાપણ કહેવાય" ( Dikri
to Parki thapan Kevay )
Which
can also means – "The farewell of a daughter is inevitable".
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